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	<description>I don’t know if I dove into dating – I may have belly-flopped. Not all dates are bad dates, but dating overall is a bit like a tornado. Enjoy my adventures &#38; guest posts.</description>
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		<title>Gaining The Male Perspective On Divorce</title>
		<link>http://tornadodating.wordpress.com/2011/11/28/gaining-the-male-perspective-on-divorce/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 00:15:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I find myself in an interesting situation where some close friends are going through a divorce or are considering a divorce.  Since both of these friends are men, it provides a different perspective on my divorce. I should first say that I consider my divorce the most painful gift I have ever received.  Though I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tornadodating.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8022045&amp;post=362&amp;subd=tornadodating&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>It&#8217;s Hard To Open Up &amp; Share</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 16:51:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">https://tornadodating.wordpress.com/?p=359</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I’ve had interesting dating experiences – some fun and some scary!&#160; I haven’t experienced that special “spark” people speak about.&#160; (To be honest, I don’t know that it exists.) Sometimes I wonder if my psyche is screwed up and I’m not able to become deeply involved at an emotional level.&#160; Even now when I think [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tornadodating.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8022045&amp;post=359&amp;subd=tornadodating&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Tornado Dating Continues With A super Scary Date Story</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 17:58:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[It’s been a while since my last post and I haven’t really gone on many dates since.  I’m a bit burnt out and this next story was a big reason I took a break. I haven’t had much success in online dating.  I’ve found that while profiles and emails may help you filter incompatibilities, you [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tornadodating.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8022045&amp;post=357&amp;subd=tornadodating&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>I Don&#8217;t Know You, But Let&#8217;s Sail Away Together</title>
		<link>http://tornadodating.wordpress.com/2011/05/11/i-dont-know-you-but-lets-sail-away-together/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 May 2011 01:01:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I agreed to meet another man I met through an online dating site.  In email he was charming, funny and complimentary. In person, he was more than surprising! He wanted to meet at Daniel’s Broiler for dinner, but I suggested we meet for drinks instead.  A few minutes after I arrived and sat down at [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tornadodating.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8022045&amp;post=351&amp;subd=tornadodating&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Sometimes Our Hearts Get Stuck</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 May 2011 05:08:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ever felt strong emotions or a strong attachment to someone you probably shouldn’t?  I’m there. I’m inexplicably drawn to a man who stirs up emotions I have never felt before.  It sounds wonderful until I say that he is not emotionally available.  I think sometimes he wants to be, but then other times I think [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tornadodating.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8022045&amp;post=345&amp;subd=tornadodating&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Ready To Commit???</title>
		<link>http://tornadodating.wordpress.com/2010/11/05/ready-to-commit/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Nov 2010 14:50:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’ve been emotionally unavailable. I thought I was in a position where I could open up and love a potential life partner, but I wasn’t. I was able to develop deep feelings and perhaps love that person, but I wasn’t able to open up and let go of my defenses. I think I just might [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tornadodating.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8022045&amp;post=334&amp;subd=tornadodating&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Feeling Lost</title>
		<link>http://tornadodating.wordpress.com/2010/10/29/feeling-lost/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 13:15:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m finding myself in a sad place right now. As I have worked to learn new coping skills, I have also worked to purge negative relationships from my life. I haven’t let down my defenses, so I haven’t developed new healthier relationships. This leaves me in a state of loneliness. I realize that my previous [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tornadodating.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8022045&amp;post=330&amp;subd=tornadodating&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Taking Your Own Advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Oct 2010 23:47:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’m not sure why this thought hit me today, but I am glad it did. I realized that I would tell a friend to move on and end whatever relationship she was in if he/she were experiencing the same “dating woes” I am. I’m a firm believer that if someone is interested in you they [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tornadodating.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8022045&amp;post=328&amp;subd=tornadodating&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Unlearning My Past</title>
		<link>http://tornadodating.wordpress.com/2010/10/15/unlearning-my-past/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Oct 2010 15:42:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://tornadodating.wordpress.com/?p=325</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I’m not very good with developing healthy relationships with men. Although I think I finally understand the root cause of why my relationships with men are so dysfunctional, it doesn’t make it easy to break patterns and learn new behaviors. Bear with me for this rollercoaster ride – I’m going to divulge more than I [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tornadodating.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8022045&amp;post=325&amp;subd=tornadodating&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Maybe You Aren’t A Jerk, But I Wouldn’t Know</title>
		<link>http://tornadodating.wordpress.com/2010/10/12/maybe-you-aren%e2%80%99t-a-jerk-but-i-wouldn%e2%80%99t-know/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Oct 2010 19:50:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a brief post where I rant about flakey behavior. I’m not a needy person and I’m not demanding either, but I do think you should treat people with respect and consideration. I get that things happen and “life” can get in the way sometimes. Sometimes plans have to be changed because you just [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=tornadodating.wordpress.com&amp;blog=8022045&amp;post=322&amp;subd=tornadodating&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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